..Which can be true, but generally not in the world of blogging.

Hello my readers, if any. Heh! It’s been nuts around here. We are just a few weeks away from aquiring the Dj franchise and we are heading into our busy season. It wouldn’t be so bad except that my boss is being difficult. He doesn’t want to actually talk to me. Why, I have no clue, but he doesn’t converse with me when I ask him to explain how something works. UNLESS there is a direct problem. If he can do it without talking to me, he does.

My last weekend was fun and hell. Fun in that I got to see my friends at the Relay for Life walk-a-thon and a fun wedding a few hours after, hell in that I only got three hours of sleep in two days. Also hell was we had a bride get stood up by her dj. Long story short….dj confusion and my boss not following through with his end of things. The kicker for me is that she was origionally my bride. I got pulled off her event and then no one showed up. I feel really bad about it. You have absolutely no idea. In the nearly five years I’ve been djing, I’ve NEVER had this happen to me.

And now my name is mud. I’ve had four brides call me up who heard about it. And since the bride was expecting me, I’m the one who got the bad rap. *sigh* I just keep in mind that I’m goign to be in charge in about three weeks and then I can make sure stuff like this doesn’t happen, if at all possible. This missed event was completely preventable.

I haven’t mentioned the trip to utah, not because I want it private, but because I haven’t been able to figure out how to condense what we did. The upswing though is that the family really liked us. Blondguy comes from a good family. The downside is that the girl Blondguy was serious about dumped him because he took ME to utah. The trip was no longer about us, but about his son, and she got all huffy that he was taking me. So now he’s all upset at me for taking me. I asked him if he wanted us to come, he said yes. When he said he was serious about this girl, I asked if he still wanted to and he said yes. Okay then, we went.

I had to remind him recently that there was nothing wrong in taking us to meet his family. TAdpole and I are now part of that family whether any girlfriend likes it or not. His parents even called me on my birthday to wish me well. They also sent a card telling me that they felt tadpole was in excellent hands and that they felt better about things. Made me happy. I also reminded him that there would also always been a level of friendship between us and any future wife who is jealous of that will transfere that onto his kids. NOT what one needs when your trying to blend families. I’m not interested in Blondguy as a potential mate anymore, but I am interested in making sure that whatever stepmother he brings into my son’s life is going to treat him well. Any man who comes into my life has to be okay with the fact that I have three kids that need to have good relationships with their dads. And he has to be willing to help me in that. Same as I would do if my future spouse has kids. I don’t think Blondguy really understands all this very well. He might…but I doubt it.

I reopened my LDS dating profiles, and I’ve been having fun the last couple weeks talking to various members around the country. The majority of them are not in the same emotional spot that I am. Which is disappointing. So far I’ve only met three people who I could see myself dating…however, we are a loooong ways away from that potential yet. Last thing I need to do is run into some relationship prematurely. Maybe I’m being overly cautious, but I’m not dating anyone I’m not friends with first.

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