Men are crazy
I’ve been running into the weirdest males lately.
I’ve had DM show up to say hi. He needs to get new material. While he was just saying hi and not wanting anything from me, his email read somethign to the effect that he missed my quarky sense of humor and etc. Since it’s been over six months since we spoke I’m thinking, “yeah, sure you do.”
Then I had a guy on my LDS dating site approach me for a polyamourous relationship. He expected me to be shocked. I was unimpressed with his attempts to look like a bad boy. I told him as I’ve told others, if I wanted that kind of relationship, I didn’t need to get divorced.
There is also the exfiance of a friend of mine who is trying to pick me up. He invited me to run off to Vegas with him. I reminded him that he was just engaged to a good friend, that I had three children and that I don’t have any desire to go to Vegas. He actually thought I would dump my kids off with someone else and go to Vegas for the weekend.
I’m starting to think I have “BIMBO” stamped on me somewhere. (smirk)
I got stood up for the first time last saturday. He had a semi decent exuse that he gave me the next day, but he hasn’t bothered to call me even once this week when he had called me every day last week. So I consider that one a wash. We did get a semi dinner date the night before. He even confirmed the date the next day before he left. But oh well. Easy come easy go.
BG has finally started some therapy. I went up two weeks ago to take Tadpole up for a visit to Bellingham and I sat him down and talked with him about my concerns in his behavior. He’s been jumping from one girl to the next and I’m seriously concerned about what type of woman he’s going to end up with if he doesn’t get his head screwed on straight. Turns out that the girl he’s semi breaking up with also had similar concerns by how he was treating her and I guess between teh two of us we convinced him to get some help. The trick will be making sure he doesn’t give up and quit.
At the moment, I don’t have anohter man to worry about, so I can focus on making sure my children have good relationiships with their dads. And while Greyduck and Spud and Munchkin are doing great, BG needs lots of help. And I have felt impressed to try, for my son’s sake, to help things. So far, I know him longest and best of his currant circle of aquaintences. And since I’m working on being his friend so he doesn’t crash any further then he has been, I just hope it makes a differnece. When I was spiraling the first year after my divorce and my dad’s death, I had some good friends who didn’t give up on me. I don’t feel right in walking away from BG. I’m not committing my heart to anything. But I want the best possible friendship between us for Tadpole’s sake.
I’m working on my NaNoWriMo challenge. Took me a bit to get started. I was mixing a modern setting with a romantic period one…and I was wondering why I was getting confused. So, had to restart, sort of. But we are doing good now. I”m still behind, but, I have a new goal set to how many words I need to do each day and it’s definately doable. Especially now that I know how I want my story going. That’s always a bonus. (wink)
